Absolutely, open and honest communication is key in any husband wife dispute. If you’re feeling a lack of compatibility or suffocation in the relationship, approaching your spouse in a calm and compassionate way can make a big difference. Honest conversations like these, approached with mutual respect, can often lead to meaningful changes, whether that’s through better communication, adjusting expectations, or even deciding if a different path might be healthiest for both of you.
Constant unhappiness, stress, disrespect, and persistent arguments are signals that something isn’t right in the relationship. While every relationship has its ups and downs, a consistent pattern of negativity can be harmful for both partners’ mental and emotional health. Acknowledging when things aren’t as they should be is a courageous step, and addressing it proactively can pave the way to a healthier, more fulfilling relationship—whether it’s through healing together or finding peace separately.
Discuss with your lawyer all the financial complications, division of assets, support and rights arising out of separation. Discussing these aspects with a lawyer is critical when navigating a separation, as the financial and legal implications can be complex. A lawyer can help clarify rights and obligations, provide guidance on fair asset division, and ensure you’re fully informed about the support structures available to you.
Talking through the various aspects of divorce with your lawyer is essential to navigating this often complicated process. Here’s a breakdown of what you’ll want to discuss: Grounds for Divorce, Property Division, Child Custody and Parenting Plans, Child Support, Spousal Support (Alimony), Retirement Accounts and Pensions, Tax Implications, Future Modifications. Discussing these areas in detail with your lawyer will give you clarity and peace of mind as you move forward, ensuring you’re equipped with the knowledge to protect your interests and support your family.
Regardless of your family law issue, it’s important to have a reliable lawyer by your side who can help guide you through the process. Dealing with legal matters can be confusing and overwhelming. Still, a good family lawyer can explain everything in detail and help you make the best decisions for your current and future situation. They will also support you to stay in control throughout the process, which can be long and challenging. Having a calm, knowledgable legal advocate can make an enormous difference.
If you’re looking for a family lawyer, it’s essential to do your research and find someone with experience in the area of law that pertains to your case. It’s also necessary to find someone who you feel comfortable working with. You’ll be sharing personal information with your lawyer, so it’s essential that you feel confident that they will keep that information confidential.
We are more than just legal advisors—we are dedicated partners who guide our clients through some of the most challenging moments in their lives. With a deep commitment to providing the best possible resolutions, we offer expert legal counsel on a wide range of issues arising from divorce, cohabitation, marriage, and separation. We understand that family law matters are not only complex but deeply personal, often bringing with them immense emotional strain. That’s why our approach is centered on not only protecting your legal rights but also offering you the support you need as you navigate these difficult circumstances.
Each client’s situation is unique, and we take the time to fully understand the specific details of your case, recognizing that no two cases are the same. We carefully analyze the law as it applies to your personal circumstances and work with you to craft a strategy tailored to your goals and needs. Our primary focus is always to achieve the best possible outcome, and whenever possible, we explore all reasonable options for a negotiated settlement. This approach often leads to quicker, more amicable solutions that help reduce the stress and emotional toll on you and your family.
However, we know that not all cases can be resolved through negotiation. In those instances, you can trust that we will stand by your side with the experience and expertise necessary to advocate for you in contested litigation. Our team has a proven track record of effectively representing clients in court, and we approach each case with the preparation, tenacity, and dedication needed to fight for your rights and interests.
We believe that the legal process should not add to the burden you’re already carrying. That’s why we are here to make it as smooth and stress-free as possible, giving you the confidence and clarity to move forward. Whether through settlement or litigation, we are committed to delivering results that not only meet your expectations but exceed them. Your well-being is our priority, and we will work tirelessly to ensure that your voice is heard and your concerns are addressed.
In our Family Law practice we have extensive experience in all areas of family law including:
Divorce applications. Simple Divorce, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce.
Cohabitation and Marriage Contracts.
Separation Agreements.
Foreign Divorce Opinion Letters.
Custody and Access matters.
Child and Spousal Support matters.
Property Division matters.
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You need to apply to a court for a divorce.
As a general rule, to be able to divorce in Canada, you must meet ALL of the following criteria:
You and your spouse are legally married under the laws of Canada, or under the laws of another country and that marriage is recognized in Canada.
Your marriage has broken down.
You or your spouse lived in the Canadian province or territory where you apply for your divorce for a full year immediately before making your application. (See the exception to this rule for certain non-residents who married in Canada)
Canada has no-fault divorce. The only ground for a divorce in the Divorce Act is marriage breakdown. The Divorce Act says you can show your marriage has broken down if any ONE of the following criteria applies to you:
You have been living apart for one year or more.
Your spouse has been physically or mentally cruel to you.
Your spouse has committed adultery.
If you apply for a divorce on the basis of a one-year separation, you can live together for up to 90 days (either before or after you file the application) to try to reconcile. If things do not work out, you can continue your action for divorce as if you had not spent the time together.
Some couples choose to separate but still live in the same house. A lawyer can tell you what factors courts may consider when they are deciding if you are separated.
The Divorce Act is a federal law, but the provinces and territories are responsible for the processes for getting a divorce. You need to fill out the right forms for your province or territory and file them in a court. Or, your lawyer can do this work for you. You must follow the rules of the court that processes your divorce. You may also have to pay an application fee.
It is always a good idea to get legal advice before you apply. A lawyer can tell you about your rights and responsibilities and explain how the law applies to your situation. He or she can also explain what other documents you may need to give the court.
Depending on your province or territory, you might be able to get divorce application forms and information from:
the website or office of your provincial or territorial Ministry of Justice or Attorney General
courts
bookstores
It will probably be best if you and your spouse can agree on major issues such as child support, custody and parenting arrangements, spousal support and property issues before you apply for a divorce. If you cannot agree, you can ask the court to decide. But if you do that, your divorce may take longer to complete. It will probably also be much more expensive and stressful for you and your family if the court has to make these decisions for you.
Your province or territory may offer family justice services such as mediation to help you make difficult decisions.
As a general rule, only Canadian residents can divorce in Canada. If neither you nor your spouse lives in Canada, you cannot get a divorce under Canada's Divorce Act. But you may be able to end your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act if you meet BOTH of the following criteria:
You married in Canada; and
You cannot undo your marriage in the country where you or your spouse lives because that country does not recognize your Canadian marriage.
To undo your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act, you would need to apply to a Superior Court in the province or territory where you married. A lawyer in that province or territory may be able to advise you on what you need to do. You may also be able to get information from a Superior Court or from the Department of Justice or Attorney General in the applicable province.
A process under the Civil Marriages Act only ends the marriage. You would need to resolve other issues such as child support and spousal support under the laws of the country where you live.